Appreciation and Cornerstone

Posted by on February 15, 2004 under Sermons

What is the nicest thing a person has ever done for you? I would hate to answerthat question aloud! So many nice things have been given and done for me, I wouldhate to single out just one. So many nice things have been done for me, I know I donot remember all of them.

When something really nice is done for me, I have a very real problem. Actually,I have two problems. The first problem: if what is offered to me is much too kind, muchtoo generous, much too thoughtful, I really struggle with accepting the kindness.

Back in the 1960’s when I preached for the Senatobia congregation inSenatobia, Mississippi, a Christian friend came to me and said, “Why are you soselfish?” The question astounded me. I muttered back, “I don’t know. How am Iselfish?” The friend answered by asking another question: “Do you really enjoy doingnice things for other people?’

I knew the answer to that one! I quickly replied, “Certainly!”

He then asked, “Why won’t you let others have that feeling when they want to dosomething for you?” I had not thought about it that way, and obviously I never forgot it.

The second problem I have is found in how do I show gratitude for something Igenuinely appreciate. What is the appropriate way to show gratitude?

  1. One person in the Old Testament who knew how wonderfully God blessed himwas the psalmist, David.
    1. I am going to ask you to do something with me if you feel comfortable doing this.
      1. Many think David wrote Psalm 118 when he was a king.
      2. In the first four verses and in the last verse, there is a thanksgiving phrasethat is repeated five times.
        1. The phrase is, “His mercy endures forever”
        2. We will project the reading on the screen.
        3. Each time that phrase appears, I would like for all of us to say it togetherout loud in the first 4 verses and in the last verse.
        4. After verse 4, I want to continue reading some sections of the Psalm thatdo not include that phrase.
        5. However, I ask all of you to join with me by repeating the phrase in thelast verse of the Psalm.

      Psalm 118:1-4 O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good: because HIS MERCYENDURETH FOR EVER. Let Israel now say, that HIS MERCY ENDURETH FOREVER. Let the house of Aaron now say, that HIS MERCY ENDURETH FOR EVER. Letthem now that fear the Lord say, that HIS MERCY ENDURETH FOR EVER.
      Psalm 118:5-9 I called upon the Lord in distress: the Lord answered me, and set me ina large place. The Lord is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me? TheLord taketh my part with them that help me: therefore shall I see my desire upon themthat hate me. It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man. It is better totrust in the Lord than to put confidence in princes.
      Psalm 118:19-29 Open to me the gates of righteousness; I shall enter through them, Ishall give thanks to the Lord. This is the gate of the Lord; The righteous will enterthrough it. I shall give thanks to You, for You have answered me, And You havebecome my salvation. The stone which the builders rejected Has become the chiefcorner stone. This is the Lord’s doing; It is marvelous in our eyes. This is the day whichthe Lord has made; Let us rejoice and be glad in it. O Lord, do save, we beseech You;O Lord, we beseech You, do send prosperity! Blessed is the one who comes in thename of the Lord; We have blessed you from the house of the Lord. The Lord is God,and He has given us light; Bind the festival sacrifice with cords to the horns of the altar.You are my God, and I give thanks to You; You are my God, I extol You. Give thanks tothe Lord, for He is good; For HIS MERCY ENDURETH FOR EVER.

  2. In the New Testament, the Christian Paul was deeply appreciative of God’sblessings in Jesus Christ.
    1. Listen to Paul’s words:
      1 Timothy 1:12-17 I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, becauseHe considered me faithful, putting me into service, even though I was formerly ablasphemer and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. Yet I was shown mercy becauseI acted ignorantly in unbelief; and the grace of our Lord was more than abundant, withthe faith and love which are found in Christ Jesus. It is a trustworthy statement,deserving full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners,among whom I am foremost of all. Yet for this reason I found mercy, so that in me asthe foremost, Jesus Christ might demonstrate His perfect patience as an example forthose who would believe in Him for eternal life. Now to the King eternal, immortal,invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.
    2. Paul knew what he was before he believed in Jesus Christ, and Paul knew whatGod made him after he believed in Jesus Christ.
      1. Before he believed in Jesus Christ, Paul was a devoutly religious person, buta very ungodly religious person.
      2. After he believed in Jesus Christ, Paul through Jesus Christ was truly aservant of the Most High God.
      3. Paul said God patiently, mercifully saved him to prove that in Christ God cansave anyone.
    3. How can we say, “Thank you!” to God for the redemption, the forgiveness, andthe resurrection God gives us in Christ?

Communion

Thanksgiving for Bread
[Bread served.]

Thanksgiving for Cup
[Fruit of the vine served.]

David Chadwell

West-Ark Church of Christ, Fort Smith, AR
Morning Sermon, 15 February 2004


Our Response

COME TO THE CORNERSTONE
by Chris Benjamin

1 Peter 2:2-10

Rockwall Recollections –

As a child on the farmland in Brentwood, weekends and summers were spent building the houses and other structures on the land. I recall the genesis of the old barn from its time as nothing more than a wooden framework rich with the smell of sawdust and construction materials. We used the resources available to us on the land. For a time we even had our own sawmill and made planks from the trees on our land. Using the resources from our 400 acres meant using rocks and stones. Stonework is a common feature of the structures my family built. It is a part of every building – the well house, the garage, the chimneys of houses and the patio walls.

I remember our old rusted metal trailer wagon. We hitched it to the back of the Massey Ferguson and chugged out to a clearing in the woods or to a place near the little canyons that cut through our land. The men would fan out and begin gathering rocks of all sizes and shapes. My father told me that as he would walk along scanning for rocks he would look at all sorts of rocks – some of them moss-covered, some of them rough, some of them slick and smooth, some of them light-colored and others black as coal, some buried deep in the earth and others just standing free as if they had just tumbled off the slide of a cliff. He said that as they gathered the rocks he could begin to see the entire wall formed in his mind. After filling the trailer, they would bring the haul of stones and spread them out at the building site. Like the pieces of the puzzle the rocks are combed through to find the rock that is destined to fit. Nothing is forced to fit. There’s a rock for every part of the wall. And every rock will find its place in the wall – some rocks are . My father has a rock shaped like the state of Arkansas in his rock pile at home. One day it will be a part of a wall. Not right now. But one day he will place it into a wall, or chimney, or walkway – in his own time, in his way.

My father tells me that during the gathering of the stones and in the sorting of the stones there is a subconscious search for the stone. The builder knows it when he sees it. It has the right shape and size; just the right height and width. This stone becomes the cornerstone of the wall or chimney. Dad says that when he finds this stone he can see the whole structure projecting from it. Just by looking at that one stone he can see how every other stone fits and stacks to build the whole structure. You can search for rocks all weekend, but only when you find this one rock can the construction begin. It is the key to the whole project.

Because of God’s mercy and kindness, we have been gathered. He has a vision for us. He has a project in mind and we are the materials for that project. It’s a work of restoration – a new house built on ancient foundations.

God had the entire project in mind when he placed the cornerstone.

What is this project God visualizes? For what purpose and for what project is he gathering us and building us?

One way to express this project/purpose might be – "Making Disciples for Jesus who are Eager to Serve Others."

    • Yesterday the elders of the West-Ark congregation spent time in prayer, study and conversation. Their aim was to discern how we might communicate the mission of this congregation. They affirmed the statement above.
    • They also spent time discerning how we can go about making disciples for Jesus eager to serve others. What sort of values and goals ought to be at the forefront of who we are and what we do?
    • The statement of goals and strategies to put the mission statement into action is ongoing – you will be hearing more about this through the next six months, but today I think we can take a look at some of the encouragement Peter gives us …

  1. Come to Christ … (v. 4)
      Christ is the cornerstone of our fellowship and community. We are oriented and supported by him.
      We are being built into a spiritual house by the master builder – God.
      Every member and every ministry of West Ark must be oriented and supported by Jesus Christ. If Christ isn’t cornerstone to all that we do here, then why are we doing it?
  2. Crave pure spiritual milk so that you can grow into the fullness of your salvation (v. 2)
      Christ is the source of our growth and nurture as a church. We don’t just rely on ourselves or one another. We’ve tasted the Lord’s kindness and we recognize that God in Christ is the source we need for spiritual nutrition. "Making disciples" means more than just initiating people into salvation – it also means growing into and living out our salvation. We need the gospel not only at our spiritual birth, but throughout our life.
  3. Offer the spiritual sacrifices that please him because of Jesus Christ. (v. 5)
      We show our appreciation and thanks by offering all that we are to the kind, merciful God whose loves endures forever. Every stone fits into the project. Every piece is important to the building of the spiritual house.
      Everyone here has a gift as part of the body. That gift is for the encouragement of the body and is for serving others. We need to recognize one another’s gifts and encourage one another to use them.
  4. Proclaim the mighty acts of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. (v. 9)
      We have a message – not about ourselves, but about God who has done so much for us. We have a message about Christ, our Lord, God has chosen him and has done and is doing something wonderful through Christ.
      We have an identity – We know who we are because we know whose we are. We are a chosen people, a holy nation, a royal priesthood. We are chosen and called out – but not for our sake but for the sake of the world.

Why do we do all this? Why does God do it? Because his mercy endures forever! He’s kind and good.

1 Peter 1:3 – Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

  • Out of gratitude to God for what he has made us in Christ, make disciples for Jesus and be eager to serve others.
  • If the first disciple you need to make is yourself, then come to Christ, the living stone. Don’t reject him.

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